Friday, March 2, 1832

 1832 March

Friday 2

10

12 40/..

Finish morning. F 57 1/2°  at 10 in my room and 40° at 10 3/4 in the balcony –

Mr. Duke came at 11 – Thinks Miss Hobart will be quite well in 2 or 3 days.  She is certainly very much better this morning –

Breakfast and reading the newspaper from 11 10/.. to 12 –

From twelve and ten minutes till two and then from three and ten minutes till four, wrote 3 pages and end, and first page crossed, to Mariana –

Miss H- downstairs – Went and sat on the sofa by her from 2 to 3 10/.. – She is very much better but has still a little of the spasmodic pain in the region of the left side – tho’ the blue pill and hyoscyamus pills yesterday morning did her an infinity of good –

In answer to Mariana, after 1/2 page of chit chat –

‘I quite enter into all you say about the unfortunate quarrel, and grieve over it exceedingly – Perhaps it is neither likely, nor natural, that Mr. Crewe should forget very easily so provoking and unprovoked an annoyance – It may, perhaps it must, have disclosed many things with regard to Charles which had been better unknown’; and a feeling of interest and sympathy is the common consolation of the aggrieved –  

‘But time does wonders, and , by and by, perhaps the keenness even of this unlucky business may be worn away – So not despair – Mr. Wood may not be the only gainer – something very especially conciliatory may by and by be done for you, too; and all things may turn out much better than you expect – In fact, Mary, the moment I begin to reason with myself, I always look on the bright side; and my conviction is daily strengthened that all things work together for good’ –

Then observed on her Sunday School – delighted at her doing so much good -- . . . .

‘This day week it will be 16 years since that day of Doom that sealed so many fates by ‘yours!  What scope for musing! Will you think of it, when the morning comes? How easy it seems to me to recall the whole as if it had been but yesterday! How strange a dream is life!  My eye insensibly glances on your plans, not Lady Stuart’s, for she certainly never gave it thought – How odd the thing looks in writing!  I can scarce help laughing – How grotesque the fashion you would give my destiny! But, Mary, I do not feel old enough yet – I am determined not to be so at my wits’ end – You shall hear of some plan or other of my own, before the 3 months’ end –

I should probably have been at Shibden all this while had Marian’s domestic system permitted – All you say would be very well, if my aunt was not there – But there is the difficulty – to her the not seeing more of me, is a real privation; yet I feel as if she would rather I did not go at all, than go merely for an uncomfortable day or 2 – I should be within 60 miles of her, at Lawton – Indeed, indeed, Mary, that would be very awkward, to say nothing of my increased anxiety to be at Lawton – since that memorable plague of the bug, and the martyrdom of Mr. Wood – I really do not think I can make up my mind so soon to jeopardize your house again –

If you are at an Inn at Leamington, that will make a difference – But why can you not put yourself into the mail, and come to me for a few days?  You need not be more than a week away – I should see you much more comfortably, and would meet you anywhere not too far on my way homewards – There is a comfortable Inn at Saint Albans – Do think of this – You must have some pity for me, as well as Mr. Crewe – and remember that, were you in my place, you would not relish the idea of Lawton less than 12 months after that terrible to-do – I do not say I will never go there again, but I have not had quite time enough to digest it thoroughly as yet’ –

As I cannot be with her or at Shibden, what better can I do than go abroad – Mrs. Norcliffe has asked my plans – Rosamund Robinson writes for her – Have engaged Francesco Bado from some time next month, of which he is to have a fortnight’s notice.  But I shall not attempt to fix anything till I know whether you can possibly come to me for a few days, or not’ – She makes me melancholy by seeming so uncertain of my living at Shibden.  Hope she is not prophetic – Often think of her saying ‘Pull it down at once’ –

Mention Miss Hobart’s having been confined to her bed the last 3 days – Up today and better, but, of course, not the stronger for blistering etc.’ She got cold on Monday – I think bile had as much to do with it as anything else’ –

What will Mariana do if she feels anything of cholera? -- . . .

‘God bless you, my dearest Mary! – At my wits’ end or not, I am always very especially and entirely your A L’ –

3/4 hour (from 4 to 4 3/4) writing all the above of today – From 5 to 6 1/4, wrote 2 1/4  pages to Mrs. Norcliffe – at 6, sent off my letter to “Mrs. Lawton Post Office Cheltenham Gloucestershire” – 

Dressed – downstairs at 6 50/.. – Dinner at 7 alone (Miss H- had had her little dinner at 5) in 20 minutes – Coffee at 8 1/2 – played and lost, from 9 to 10, two hits at backgammon – Mr. Duke came at 9 – Miss H- much better, but not without pain at intervals –

She had had box from London this afternoon with law papers, etc. – Sat reading them this evening before coffee – and after Miss H- went to bed.  It seems the Irish estates came from Sir Cecil Wray of Branston in Lincolnshire, who left them to his natural daughter, Ann Casey, who married Lord Vere Bertie and was mother of Miss H-’s grandmother, Albinia, Countess of Buckinghamshire, and of Lady Stuart, which last had six thousand pounds out of the aforesaid Irish estates in the county of Limerick –

Miss H- left me at 10 – Went to her at 10 3/4 and sat by her bedside till 11 20/.. – Then left her 1/2 asleep and came to my room – Read over Mr. Frampton’s abstract of Irish Estates Settlement deed of January, 1791, and wrote the last 9 lines –

Finish day – F 59° now at 11 50/.. p.m. in my room and 39 at 12/35/.. in the balcony -- 


WYAS Finding Numbers  SH:7/ML/E/15/0033 and SH:7/ML/E/15/0034  

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